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Denise Shelton's avatar

Nobody likes rejection and waiting makes it even harder. I stopped trying to get accepted into publications because I’d sometimes wait weeks just to be told no. Of course, self-publishing severely limits my ability to reach a wider audience, so attempting to avoid pain ends up causing more.

I’m currently going through an ego battering due to my acceptance of an understudy role in a play where, during the nine-show run, I get to play the principal role once. In the other performances, I have a bit part. Once that’s over, I’ll feel stronger about putting myself out there with my writing. In the meantime, there are a couple of pubs where I’m welcome whatever I submit. I’ll stick to them for now. Call it self-care.

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Walter Rhein's avatar

I find that whether a story gets Boosted or not, if you write with the hope of getting a Boost, the work ends up being better. If I submit something with the thought, "Gosh... that feels Boostworthy" then the story tends to perform well even without a Boost. It's also very fun to write for specific editors, even if I don't always hit exactly what they're looking for. I enjoy trying to figure out ways to come at their preferred themes from a different angle. It's all part of the gentle direction that helps the creative process... a "necessity is the mother of invention" type of thing. Writing is often a weird juxtaposition of playing it safe and taking risks. Many writers I talk to just aren't listening to the advice about submitting to the right publication, but a few more seem to understand every day. Thanks for writing!

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